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		Comment on Couples with BPD or Emotion Dysregulation: Write Your Partner a Playbook © by paynecathleen		</title>
		<link>https://porcupinelove.com/blog/write-your-partner-a-playbook/#comment-62</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[paynecathleen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Aug 2022 13:36:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://porcupinelove.com/blog/write-your-partner-a-playbook/#comment-61&quot;&gt;Desiree&lt;/a&gt;.

Desiree, yes I will be replaying the conference in an &quot;Emotions Matter&quot; webinar 7:00-7:45 pm the evening of August 22nd, found online at: emotionsmatterbpd.org. There will be time for questions after we replay the Yale Conference presentation and I am sorry we will miss you! Feel free to send me any questions on this blog comment thread!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://porcupinelove.com/blog/write-your-partner-a-playbook/#comment-61">Desiree</a>.</p>
<p>Desiree, yes I will be replaying the conference in an &#8220;Emotions Matter&#8221; webinar 7:00-7:45 pm the evening of August 22nd, found online at: emotionsmatterbpd.org. There will be time for questions after we replay the Yale Conference presentation and I am sorry we will miss you! Feel free to send me any questions on this blog comment thread!</p>
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		Comment on Couples with BPD or Emotion Dysregulation: Write Your Partner a Playbook © by Desiree		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Aug 2022 05:32:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Cathleen. Thank you for reading and responding to my comment. Will you be replaying the conference on August 22?
I work in the evening. 
Thank you,]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cathleen. Thank you for reading and responding to my comment. Will you be replaying the conference on August 22?<br />
I work in the evening.<br />
Thank you,</p>
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		Comment on Couples with BPD or Emotion Dysregulation: Write Your Partner a Playbook © by paynecathleen		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Aug 2022 14:58:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://porcupinelove.com/blog/write-your-partner-a-playbook/#comment-59&quot;&gt;Desiree&lt;/a&gt;.

Desiree, thank you for your shining example of courage and persistence in getting to the other side of your pain! It is such a hard thing to do! So glad to hear my words were helpful to you!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://porcupinelove.com/blog/write-your-partner-a-playbook/#comment-59">Desiree</a>.</p>
<p>Desiree, thank you for your shining example of courage and persistence in getting to the other side of your pain! It is such a hard thing to do! So glad to hear my words were helpful to you!</p>
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		Comment on Couples with BPD or Emotion Dysregulation: Write Your Partner a Playbook © by Desiree		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Desiree]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Aug 2022 00:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you!!! As I was reading the questions, in my mind I was saying…
“what is the answer?” I started to panic. I got very confused and started to cry. I keep reading and knowing that I could even begin to write a single word, thought, answer to your questions. I can’t put into words this avalanche of emotion? The words… what are the words??? Then I saw your answers. THANK YOU! THANK YOU!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you!!! As I was reading the questions, in my mind I was saying…<br />
“what is the answer?” I started to panic. I got very confused and started to cry. I keep reading and knowing that I could even begin to write a single word, thought, answer to your questions. I can’t put into words this avalanche of emotion? The words… what are the words??? Then I saw your answers. THANK YOU! THANK YOU!</p>
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		Comment on Welcome: Couples Where One Struggles with Emotion Dysregulation or BPD by Marie-Paule		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Marie-Paule]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jul 2022 00:45:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Cathleen, your vulnerability and ability to capture the pain and -yes- the hope is a tribute to the wonderful person that you are: brave, resilient, determined. You and Jim are an example to the rest of us all, imperfect and extraordinary humans - whether bpd is part of the picture or not.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cathleen, your vulnerability and ability to capture the pain and -yes- the hope is a tribute to the wonderful person that you are: brave, resilient, determined. You and Jim are an example to the rest of us all, imperfect and extraordinary humans &#8211; whether bpd is part of the picture or not.</p>
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		Comment on Couples with BPD or Emotion Dysregulation: Write Your Partner a Playbook © by Gayla		</title>
		<link>https://porcupinelove.com/blog/write-your-partner-a-playbook/#comment-9</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Gayla]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Mar 2022 15:14:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is great!  So informative!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is great!  So informative!</p>
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		Comment on Welcome: Couples Where One Struggles with Emotion Dysregulation or BPD by Carrie		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Carrie]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Feb 2022 15:52:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Love this. I so appreciate your acknowledgement that there are no &quot;quick-fixes&quot; to our emotional pain, but with hard work and awareness,  we can learn to lessen our &quot;acting out&quot; in the moment and even, in time, lessen the severity of the pain. What wonderful words of hope and understanding that we are all in this together.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love this. I so appreciate your acknowledgement that there are no &#8220;quick-fixes&#8221; to our emotional pain, but with hard work and awareness,  we can learn to lessen our &#8220;acting out&#8221; in the moment and even, in time, lessen the severity of the pain. What wonderful words of hope and understanding that we are all in this together.</p>
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